Should I Purchase a House with my Girlfriend, Boyfriend, or Others I'm not Married to?

Above: Adam & his wife Jessica

The answer to this question depends on a number of factors. Please keep in mind that I am not an attorney and that I am not authorized to give "legal advice". It's a good idea to consult your attorney on this topic as well as your faith leader such as a pastor if you are a person of faith.

The law treats a spouse differently than a boyfriend/girlfriend in marital rights even if a spouse isn't on a loan.

If I want to buy with someone I'm not married to, what should I do?

Should I involve my boyfriend/girlfriend in the purchase decision even if they won't be living with me while unmarried? Likely w/ caveats

Statistics on live-in romantic relationships vs marriages in impact on each other

Statistics on marriage vs single/cohabiting on kids' abuse/neglect

Statistics on marriage vs single/cohabiting on kids' family's income as a kid & after "growing up"

Ethical/faith-based considerations & Adam's experience

Consider your relationship duration & other data, even if you're married, before purchasing together.

Related:

• Credit & Finances

• SE VA House Buyer Guide

• Virginia Tenant Guide

• What Adam Offers Buyers